I usually feel free to speak my mind. I think what I'm trying to say here is that it just hurts to see folks hurting - and the comics are making folks hurt. I haven't felt any pressure from anywhere to censor myself. And I'm not going to censor myself. It's an internal thing. If people are snarking and stuff, I can fire away with pleasure. It's when oxes are gored. But yeah, at the end of the day we're all in charge of our own selves and our own reactions.

Re: the preview: I understand the caution. All bets are off, and it'd be foolish to kick back and think we're somehow going to avoid Joss's wrecking ball. But Jeanty told the Bangels to be afraid of the Spuffy, and I keep looking at that bed... which I do not think is randomly drawn to be the spitting image of the Bangel bed of lost innocence.