Hm, actually that sort of does fit Saffron. That makes me sad. I love OMR crazy amounts, but I've felt a little uneasy about the straddle/gun-hit you mention. Now I have more reason to. Grumble.

continued trigger warning for sexual abuse
On radfem generally: I read a piece that *started* with the assumption that every time a man and a woman have sex, he is raping her. I think I felt nauseous the rest of the day.